Assess your level of intentionality over the last 90 days.

 

Marriage

In what ways have you been intentional in your marriage?

 

Nurturing Intimacy

I spent quality time alone with my spouse twice or more this month.

  • I tangibly expressed love at least twice this month (wrote a note, gave flowers, cooked special meal, etc.).
  • I initiated non-task driven communication at least three times this week (called during the day, took walks together, took time to chat).
  • I prayed with my spouse (other than mealtime) at least twice

this week.

  • I initiated meaningful touch (hugs, kisses) at least once per day.
  • I offered verbal affirmation (words of appreciation, admiration, affection) at least once per day.
  • I prayed for my spouse daily this past month.

 

Avoiding Dangers

  • I took steps to reduce risk to my marriage by establishing or maintaining boundaries, increasing accountability, etc.
  • I made a consistent effort to take care of myself physically, spiritually, and emotionally.
  • I initiated and apologized or forgave my spouse after conflicts and before going to bed.

 

Marriage Intentionality Summary

Based on your answers above, circle the phrase that best describes your level of intentionality over the past 90 days with regard to building a life-long, thriving marriage.

 

Very Intentional   ·    Not Bad    ·   Hit and Miss

Mostly Miss   ·    Totally Haphazard

 

Plan Ahead

To strengthen my marriage during the next 90 days, I intend to:

Suggestion: Schedule date night at least twice a month.

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 Faith@Home

In what ways have you been intentional as a parent/grandparent?

 

Parents:

  • I did something special with each child at least twice last month.
  • I prayed daily for my children this past month.
  • I daily connected relationally with my children (chatting, helping with homework, eating meals together, etc.).
  • I created an occasion at home for passing my beliefs and values to my children at least once per week (family night activity, mealtime conversation, bedtime reading, etc.).
  • I prayed with my children at least five times per week.
  • I apologized or forgave before going to bed after conflicts with my children this past month.
  • We participated as a family in a regular church service at least three times this past month.

 

Grandparents:

  • I fostered a relational connection with my grandchildren at least once this past month (wrote a letter, hobby, movie night, phone call, etc.).
  • I did something intentional in the past 90 days to help my grandchildren inherit a strong spiritual legacy.
  • I served in a ministry, missions, or service project or participated in an intergenerational faith experience with my grandchildren at least once in the past 90 days.

 

Faith@Home Intentionality Summary

Based on your answers above, circle the phrase that best describes your level of intentionality over the past 90 days with regard to passing faith to the next generation.

 

Very Intentional · Not Bad ·    Hit & Miss

Mostly Miss ·    Totally Haphazard

 

 

Plan Ahead

To better instill Christian faith in my children/grandchildren in the next 90 days, I intend to:

Suggestion: Schedule age-appropriate Faith@Home experiences

at least twice a month. Find ideas at bellevue.org/homepoint.

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